My OH came home from a 'social drink' (night out) with his friends tonight about midnight and about 15 minutes ago he woke up and went to the bathroom to throw up (doesn't happen that often but fucks me off when he does it, he's not a teenager anymore - he's 42).
His phone flashed up so looked thinking who the hell is this at gone 1am and it was this girl that I've had problems with him messaging before. Said before that I'm reading too much into it etc and they're just good friends yada yada yada.
While he's huddled over the toilet I decide to have a look at this inbox thread and he appears to message her almost every single day and while it normally is every day conversation the fact that it's more often than I thought has really pissed me off now.
The nail on the coffin was the message that he sent her when he was out tonight - 'you looked hot behind the bar' (she works in the one pub they go to).
We've had problems in the past to do with trust issues but I thought that was behind us, it was in the first few years of our relationship when it started 10 years ago and I had started to trust him again but there was always something niggling in my mind that he messages other girls and doesn't mention it.
I don't think he's actually cheating but surely messaging 'a friend' almost every day and saying stuff like you looked hot behind the bar is unacceptable?
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TemperanceBrennan · 29/08/2016 01:36
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