I had a baby a few weeks ago. I recovered sooner than I thought I would, and wanted to make the most of the summer holidays with my other children. I am feeling the baby blues, and really hate being 'trapped' indoors staring out the window. I have 4 children including the baby, and can't drive right now, so rely on DP for longer journeys.
DP has been out often since late in my pregnancy, he goes to the gym 5 days a week, has been out with friends, and this weekend will be attending a wedding I am not invited to (no children are allowed).
So far we have been out a handful of times, and it is always late in the day. As I'm up at 6am I am feeling resentful and upset that I have missed the best of the day and the warm weather. For example, a few days ago DP insisted we all go to the seaside a 2 hour drive away. Due to DP's faffing, we didn't leave the house until 2pm, arrived at the seaside for 4pm, and spent only a few hours there before having to leave to go home.
Today DP wanted to take the kids to the park 30 mins away. He promised we would set off early. He went to gym at 10, and then decided to go and get the car washed. He didn't get back until late afternoon. By the time the kids had had lunch (which they needed by then) it was after 3pm. I told him there was no point going, and have now left the house to have a breather at my mum's.
Am I being unreasonable in being upset by this? On top of the above life is also complicated by having a stepchild that constantly needs to be ferried between ours and his mum's at times that have no regularity. I feel like I have no life, and no time to ever enjoy myself. But to DP it is not an issue.
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To feel it's not worth going out, if it's after 3pm?
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GreyParrot · 26/08/2016 17:17
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