DH has been a stay at home Dad for 3 years now.
I was the bigger wage earner so when we had DCs it made the most sense, their was no arguing, he didn't mind trying it out and seeing how it worked for him and I really didn't want to stop working.
It's worked out really well for us, but the way people act with him really annoys me, he was a mechanic before he stopped working and the amount of people who think they can drop by and ask him to have a look at their car during the day is ridiculous.
They seem to assume that he just sits around and that our 2 DCs feed, clothe and entertain themselves.
When he tells people that he's a stay at home Dad the looks of shock and bewilderment and the comments of 'oh that's new'
When he spends money the little comments from friends/family about how it would take a big man to spend his wife's money and how they'd never do it. It's fucking FAMILY money, I wouldn't even be able to make as much if he didn't stay at home.
Why do people think it's okay to say shit like that. It's really starting to get to DH, he's avoided 3 different lads only events this summer as they'll certainly take the piss and now doesn't want to go to a family picnic tomorrow as sexist jokes will surely be made.
Why is it so hard for people to realise that a man would enjoy staying at home and that it isn't something to make fun of him for.
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To think stay at home Dads get very little respect
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MakeMeASandwhich · 26/08/2016 17:03
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