Divorced 3 years. DS x 2 live with me full time. They are and always have been my world.
ExH is a twat, always has been. DS's have always come to me for advice etc.; as I am, shall we say, easier to talk to. (I don't slag exh off to them as I've always felt they will make up their own minds based on their own judgement).
I've been mum and dad all their lives. After split they saw Exh maybe twice a week in the evening which slowly got cancelled by him, dates changed etc. Now they see him an hour a week if that and it's always to suit his schedule.
I am 0 contact with Exh. Boys were 16/14 when we split, old enough to make own arrangements. I have no reason to communicate with Exh whatsoever.
I thought I had blocked him but got a message out of the blue this morning (following one disappointing AS result for DS2)....
'I feel we have both let him down and if we communicated about it him it would have been far better'
Ds is on medication which makes him tired a lot and throughout the year I've been working with his college to ensure he made up time, coursework etc., where he had time off.
WIBU to tell him to fuck off? I really want to be able to put an eloquent response together but raging so much at the moment that fuck off is all I can manage.
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To tell him to fuck the fuck off?
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loopyfeckinlu · 26/08/2016 12:28
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