I have long suspected my child has ASD and following a lecture at Uni on autism have arranged for her to see someone. My husband however is not convinced and is accusing me of 'trying to make things fit'. So far I have told my daughter that its to help with her anxiety and sleep problems but I know that when we visit i will have to explain other behaviour and that she will want to know why. DH has said he never wants to hear her say she has autism and thinks we should not tell her our thoughts. She is 9 and from my perspective should know about our thoughts in an age apprpriate way and if she is diagnosed she should definatley be told as it would explain a lot of things to her. I have had Type 1 diabetes from the age of 9 and know that if I had not been told the whole truth it would have been awful for me. In addition I think not telling her may seem as if we are ashamed of her and I wouldn't want this in a million years.
My DH is a fantastic father but I am really struggling with his attitude over this. So AIBU or is DH?
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To tell my daughter why we are seeing a pyscologist?
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suchafuss · 26/08/2016 08:55
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