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AIBU?

Aibu to feel a bit upset about this

13 replies

gillys · 26/08/2016 00:51

Me & dh just had sex. He came all over my chest, then got up to go to the bathroom. I laid on the bed waiting for him to bring some loo roll back so I can mop up. Then I hear the shower running, so i call out to him but he didn't hear. So I get up, trying to stop stuff dripping everywhere. I go in to the bathroom & he's in the shower, so I said: I've been waiting for you to bring me something to wipe up with. He said do you want to get in here after me ? No, that's not the point, you've sorted yourself out & just left me.
I feel a bit used tbh and he makes me feel like I'm dirty.
Went back to bed quietly fuming, when he came back & I told him this, he sighed heavily & said through gritted teeth, is that all you've got to worry about ?
He has now gone to sleep & I'm downstairs writing this.
Would you feel pissed off ?

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JellyBelli · 26/08/2016 00:53

Yes I fucking would.
And him acting the martyr would be the icing on the cake,.

Who the actual fuck does he think you are? A porn mag?

Spring2016 · 26/08/2016 00:55

Next time put his pillowcase to good use.

GiddyOnZackHunt · 26/08/2016 00:58

Eurgh. You should have rolled over on to his side to soak the worst off.
Yanbu. I'd feel a bit like a discarded sock...

TheWitTank · 26/08/2016 00:59

Yes to the above - chest first roll onto his pillow.

bumsexatthebingo · 26/08/2016 01:01

Next time use his pillowcase.

bumsexatthebingo · 26/08/2016 01:01

Haha X-posted as was reading the op to my dh. Pillowcase seems to be the sensible choice!

Crunchymum · 26/08/2016 01:10

So instead of getting yourself cleaned up you posted here?

Alright-y-then

bumsexatthebingo · 26/08/2016 01:11

I'm assuming at least a quick wipe has taken place and the op isn't just dripping cum onto her laptop!

RepentAtLeisure · 26/08/2016 01:44

They were his bodily fluids to clean up, what a twat to just leave you there. Was it genuine oversight do you think, or is he a passive-aggressive person in general?

TheDowagerCuntess · 26/08/2016 01:48

Is this the first time he's done this, or does he have form?

hazeimcgee · 26/08/2016 01:55

His pillowcase definately. I'd be well p'd off

Icallbullshit3 · 26/08/2016 01:57

If my OH did that then it would probably be the last time we ever had sex to be honest. Especially if I got that response after.

Lollyp333 · 26/08/2016 02:07

Horrible arsehole! Wipe his 'issue' on his fave clothes. No wonder you feel used, I'd be furious but sadly you seem to be stuck with him

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