Kind of a TAAT (theme park trip auntie telling off OP's DC), but more something I've been mulling over after feeling irritable when spending (too much!) time with family and friends this summer.
I spend little time with my nieces and nephews and th DC of formerly close friends due to geographical distance, work pressures, family and relationship issues, health issues etc. When we so see people it's quite intense, eg staying with each other, holiday.
the relationships are quite distant, and I sometimes feel guilty about this, especially when I often don't feel love or even liking for the DC.
I dislike aspects of my friends' DCs' behaviour, stuff that happens frequently, and overall, because of this, find the DC tiring and irritating! And again feel guilty about this!
As a child and even adult I felt I could tell which of my many aunts/uncles liked and disliked me. I guess I want to be a "good auntie" but can't be arsed putting the work in!
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Dozer · 22/08/2016 11:18
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