We had a party this weekend and some old friends came and stayed over for it. They have two lovely boys of 7 and 9 who love our lg and it was their first time meeting pretty new (4 months old) baby.Â
When they arrived the party was in full swing but I saw that their youngest had a spot between his nose and his mouth. I thought nothing of it. As we were hosting both my husband and I were busy quite a lot and the baby was happily going to various friends and relatives for a cuddle now and again as the day progressed. I saw the younger boy kissing our baby quite a lot, and thought how sweet it was. Â Hours later I heard his mum say "careful wth that cold sore when you kiss the baby" but she let him carry on kissing. I had a growing feeling of dread- I know nothing much about cold sores having not had any experience with them but assumed as long as no direct contact it was ok, as the parents seemed so relaxed about it.Â
Then when they left I looked the virus up and oh my dear god it's so very contagious and so so potentially dangerous for small babies. If either of mine got it I would be utterly gutted. Â I'm so angry with myself for not questioning it, and so worried that either the baby or the toddler- or more likely both- will have to live with the virus for life thanks to me/ the parents being stupid.
The couple have messaged to apologise after my husband called, asked about the spot and told them how worried we are. I just don't know how to respond as I'm so mad. Aibu to think that the parents should have known what the deal was and been more careful with their boy? Surely it's the parents responsibility to take precautions if their kid is contagious? I feel sick thinking I didn't protect my kids adequately though I've not had much sleep for a few months so perhaps this is an overreaction?
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Cold sore kisses for new baby?!
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CoveredInBeeees · 15/08/2016 12:37
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