DH & I have 2 kids each from previous relationships. DD is 13 & DS is 15, he has 2 twin boys, 14 years old and we've been together for 10 years.
We've always done separate holidays with our own DC, mainly because our ideas of a holiday massively differ, he prefers quiet country holidays with lots of nature, whereas I've always like places like Butlins, Waterparks, themeparks etc
Although we have a joint account, we pay for our own holidays out of our individual accounts.
Over the years my career has progressed, which had meant more pay, meaning that I've had more to spend on mine & DCs holiday, whereas DH's career has slightly stagnated over the years which means he doesn't have as much to spend on a holiday.
My holidays are now slightly more extravagant then Butlins, in January when I was looking at tickets/hotels, I asked if he wanted us to pool our money together to go on a holiday with all our DCs, as I knew from the previous summer that he wasn't all that happy about us going away, lots of under the breath mutterings and eye rolls etc.
He said yes on the condition that we do the cottage/in the woods holidays he likes, I said no, that wouldn't be a holiday for DCs and I, we couldn't come to an agreement so I went ahead & booked a holiday for DCs and I.
DCs have been away on a holiday with their father & have been posting on Instagram/Facebook etc
DSTwins have seen all the posts & have been asking DH if they can do something different this year, he's said it's too late as they've already booked the cottage etc and then later on asked me if I could get my DCs to stop posting pictures, I told him I would ask & explain how DSCs felt but that I couldn't force them
DCs have been back for 3 days now, they didn't stop posting pictures, we're going away on Tuesday & DH has been in a sulky mood ever since they've been back, any mention of their holiday with their father or our upcoming holiday has been met with sighs & eye rolls and "are you still talking about it "
I'm getting so fed up with him, he's pushing all my buttons, I'm so close to telling him to grow the fuck up.
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Resentment from family holiday
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Queendowager · 13/08/2016 18:45
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