Hi,
My in-laws haven't spoken to me in 3.5 years. No real fallout, they just turned up at Ds2s 3rd birthday and decided they didn't want to see me anymore. We didn't have the best relationship but I would say we tolerated each other for dhs sake. I'm now pg with number 3 and I suggested to my dh that he finds out from them whether they wanted to make up for the babies sake or accept that they probably wouldn't see their new grandchild for a few months as I would be breastfeeding (they live about 20 mins away). They told dh that they would have to think about it. Well, today, with 7 weeks til due date, he told me that they would like to come and visit while we are in the hospital (very high chance of me having a c section so will be in for 3 days) no mention of speaking beforehand or anything. AIBU to be annoyed at this? I know it's their grandchild but they have behaved so badly about the whole thing that I really don't want them coming in after I've had surgery when there has been no effort for 3.5 years! Help?! Xx
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To not want in laws to visit new baby at the hospital?
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marchmontmum · 12/08/2016 19:14
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