I have 2 DSC, 14 year old DSS & 12 year old Dstep daughter, I also have one daughter, who's also 12.
This summer has honestly just been a bit crap, mainly because of DSD's constant complaints, which I understand but their's really nothing I can do about it.
We have DSC 50% of the time, during the school year, this is an every other week arrangement & we take the holidays in turn, this summer her grandfather, her mother's father had an injury & we've had DSC all summer as their mother had to leave to take care of him.
This meant that we had to come up with last minute child care as we sorted everything when we assumed we'd only have DSC for 3 weeks.
So for the past 3 weeks DSD has been in various play schemes, dance, art classes, football, things she loves to do, the issue however has been that whilst DSD has been in play schemes, my own daughter has been on 2 holidays abroad.
One that lasted 10 days to Mexico with her grandparents, her father's parents and one with her father to Japan that she's still on, when she gets back we'll all be going on a holiday together to Scotland, which we do every year and all the kids love and then DD is set to go on a summer camp for the last week before school.
DSD won't stop complaining about the unfairness of it all, she hasn't even tried to enjoy herself, I've explained it in every way that I could, although DD gets to go away, she never really gets to see her Dad or GPs etc, it goes in one ear and out the other.
She wants to go away on camp at the end of the summer but we've spent most of our holiday fund on all these playshemes for 2 kids and it's most likely that their mother will be back by the end of the holidays and would want to spend whatever time's left with her DC.
What do I do? I can't cope with anymore complaints?!
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ReallyWetWater · 06/08/2016 20:37
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