So, my husband works from home 9-6 monday to friday. Thats fine. its great actually.
Ive recently graduated and am in the process of going freelance as a designer.
I might get outed for this as its so specific but Ive got to the point where I dont really care tbh.
The issues I have are
- Other peoples children regularly knocking on the front door to ask for my kids to come out to play (My kids arent allowed off the property/garden for safety issues DTGs are 5 and DS is 7)
I don't mid the above so much but when its every day after school and they're knocking on after 5-6 o clock when we as a family sit down to tea, have chill time/family time and bedtime routine, it kind've pisses me off.
Having said that, when my kids are at my MILs, they still knock on, repeatedly (are they home yet?) even if I tell them they're not in, and no they wont be coming out to play once they're home as it will be family time/bath and bed time.
This issue really grates on me, because the little time I do get to work on my freelancing stuff is taken up with kids knocking on the door constantly. I could not answer the door, but its loud, my house isnt that big, and it could be an adult that needs a car moving, or the postman or whatever.
- Why is it that if people know you work from home, they think your hours are flexible/optional/not real work (delete as appropriate)
I take my work quite seriously. I'm driven and ambitious. I want that for my children (I want them to grow up to be strong, independent and ambitious adults)
I've managed a total of 13 hours solid work this week after being let down on promised babysitting and someone else begging for childcare because they had an emergency situation. Fine. Id planned to carry on working in the evening after they'd come back to collect their kids but they were 2 hours later than they said so by the time Id gotten home, it was basically bed time.
am I being unreasonable or just being a spoilt brat?!
to put the record straight though, DH and MIL are amazing and really supportive of my work.
It just feels like some people think that if you have more than one child, you have no right to be ambitious at all.