In an absolute state after scrolling down my FB feed and a (male if it matters) friend has shared a post of a miscarried fetus at 11 weeks as an anti-abortion argument
I lost two children in a row and still struggle with the grief as they were wanted and planned for and loved instantly.
I reported the post and blocked the feed but still feel like he should have some bloody respect for those who have suffered. The woman who's baby it was is the original poster and she allowed the image to be used to prove that "11 week olds are fully formed babies with toes, etc" and her "baby isn't here because they were sent on a higher mission to stop abortion" also "why can't they just give them up for adoption there's loads of families who will adopt them", "no need to be a murderer" (that's what it says on the post I'm a bit flabbergasted at their ignorance of the current state of adoptions).
Although I'd never have an abortion I'm 100% pro choice, but upset that I didn't get the choice whether or not to see this extremely distressing image. I'm also concerned about any vulnerable women on his friends list who may have had an abortion being seriously affected by this post.
AIBU if I tell him he's being disrespectful or should I get a grip because you can post whatever you like on your own FB. (If I had any inkling he'd post something like this I'd have blocked weeks ago).
I know you can't control what you see online but you don't expect that while casually scrolling through what your friends are up to
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To be furious with friend for this FB post **Trigger warning - upsetting content. Edited by MNHQ**
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YourNewspaperIsShit · 04/08/2016 22:43
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