I have an elderly in-law who has had dementia for quite some time (not formally diagnosed til recently but he was acting in a very uncharacteristic way, the past few years...)
He's currently in hospital but about to be released home. He was widowed in the 1990s and has lived alone, ever since.
We wondered for a long time how, as a pensioner - who had had a low paid job when he worked, and had no savings etc so far as we knew - he paid for the new cars that appeared periodically.
Now, family are starting to say they think he may have been conned by some equity release sold to him a few years back. It would be a moot point whether he had dementia at that point and even if he had, it wasn't diagnosed til recently.
Anyone have any experience of similar? He may not have been deliberately targeted, but it is apparent when you speak to him, within moments - and has been for several years - that he had some kind of memory issues (eg: he forgot how many kids he had, and what their names were - has known me since the 1980s but phones me randomly then wonders who he's speaking to....)
I wonder if he has been taken advantage of and whether, if we find out he has signed away his house, and did it after he was obviously confused, we have any recourse in law?
It looks like my husband is going to have to sort out some kind of Power of Attorney. We know nothing about this kind of thing, although I am already the Appointee for my son who is a disabled young adult. I have a feeling this might be, legally, different. Again, any advice from people who have been there, would be useful.
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To Be Concerned About Elderly Person with Dementia and Equity Release..?
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JoffreyBaratheon · 04/08/2016 12:24
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