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Next door but one have a large number (5+) kids, including 3 boys.
We live in a cul de sac, and there's a grassy roundabout in the middle. During the summer the boys are out in the road with a football a lot of the time, and as our front garden has a low (4-foot-ish) wall in front, it's favoured as a goal.
Now I don't have a problem with them outside the front, but they regularly kick the ball into our front garden or into our window at the front. This year I've made a real effort to get the front garden looking nice and they keep trampling my flower beds, and every time they kick the ball into the window it makes us jump and the dogs go ballistic (which makes me feel even worse as next door have small kids and this is frequently in the evening when I expect they're trying to do bedtime).
Tonight has been particularly bad - I caught them jumping over the wall into the flower bed at 10.30pm, in desperation parked the car in front of the wall and was met by a barrage of abuse and threats to damage it .
In order to not drip feed - we've lived here for a couple of years. I've tried asking them politely and they ignore me. There are other houses in the street with similar walls, but they say they're not allowed to play in front of them. If I speak to their parents it improves for a short while. They also think it's funny to shout stupid insults over the fence when I'm gardening, which I ignore. I get on ok with the girls, we chat over the fence occasionally.
They're not bad kids, just bored I think. AIBU to want them to stay out of my garden and leave me in peace? And if I'm not BU, any advice for improving the situation?
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Peskykidsinmygarden · 31/07/2016 23:57
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