Okay please read the thread before anyone flames me
Me and DP live together, he has DC with his XP, and he has lots of contact with DC.
This week we've needed quite a bit of work done at home we've been waiting a while for it and there was 2 dates to choose from. The first date a few weeks back it would of been on DPs contact days/weekend so we decided to wait a few weeks until the work was able to be done not on his contact days/weekend.
DP booked some time off so we were both home while it was being done and my DC went to stay at my DM so we planned it to not have any kids around
DPs ex phoned and asked him to have DC on her nights, he said sorry I can't she wants to know why he says we're having work done, but she says so have them anyway he says I can't but I'll have them extra this weekend when the works done and she loses her shit. Wants to know what works being done in detail and how long it's going to take and keeps phoning to see if it's done and can't we hurry them up to have DC
There was no emergency why she desperately needed us to have them, she told DP the reason so I know it was a desperate situation
So AIBU to think we purposely planned this work to be done when we had no kids around and my DP shouldn't explain in great fucking detail what we're having done how many people are doing it and updates when she phones to ask what they done and what they have left to do and he should be able to say sorry we're having work done I can't have them and that be the end of it
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To think DP doesn't need to explain our plans to his XP
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OneLongDay · 30/07/2016 16:51
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