I have 3DD, 17, 15, 12 and a DS, 5 with ASD.
We have an above ground pool in the garden that my teens and their friends have been using on a daily basis for the past 2 weeks and even though it was cloudy today, I had teens going in and out of the garden all day.
They were using the gate, so unless I entered the kitchen or looked out of the upper level windows, I couldn't see who was there or what was going on.
We have rules in place, e.g not to use the pool until it's 11 in the morning, 3 friends max each at one time and no more etc and my DDs have rarely broken them as it would mean they just can't use it any more.
Took DS out for the day, came home absolutely exhausted this evening to have a woman I'd never seen waiting for me.
She was one of the mother's of a girl that DD3 (12 year old) had brought home.
The Mum was pretty furious as she didn't know where her DD (also 12) had been all day, did I not watch over my kids?
Surely if a strange child was in my home I should have asked if their parents knew they were here?
Their were also 2 boys in the pool (12 and 15) and she went on about how inappropriate it was for them to be swimming alone with a group of girls.
I was too shocked and too tired to really say anything back, I said I knew the boys and didn't have a problem with them, apologied as I just assumed teens would ask their parent before going to a strangers house and it wouldn't happen again as I'd keep an eye out for her DD and send her straight back if I saw her again.
She seemed surprised and her DD got really upset but I just said goodbye and went inside.
I doubt her DD will ever return but if she does would it BU to just send her home and tell DD3 not to bring her around.
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LauraJenson · 27/07/2016 21:04
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