I'm so worried I feel sick. I don't know if this is normal PFB anxiety or my stress over their visit.
DD is 11 months, PILs are coming from overseas to stay in our house for 6weeks. I've never met them. DH reassures me they are careful, responsible people and has told them they can take DD out of nursery whenever they want for days out etc. (We have to pay for nursery anyway to keep her place).
Nobody apart from DH has ever taken DD out without me.
I'm worried for several reasons: they don't know the area, they speak very little English, they aren't first-aid trained. I know they dote on her (Skype every other day) but what if something happened? We live in a coastal town, you have to be careful of tides, cliffs, heavy traffic etc. She's crawling but not walking yet. Our house isn't baby proofed so she needs constant watching at home.
We won't be able to spend time with them all together as both of us go back to work the day after they arrive (we've got 2weeks annual leave towards the end of visit but couldn't get it earlier).
I would like to at least know where they intend to take her and when they'll be back, and for them to carry a mobile phone. AIBU?
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To worry about PILs taking DD out and to ask them to let me know where they're going and what time they'll be back?
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MidnightMoths · 27/07/2016 15:48
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