May be at the end of a once loving but now tired out marriage
There is a merry go round of lack of communication and personality mix and it feels like we are just lodgers . Counselling in past X 2
I have just left my career /job and am earing very little while I try to look to futur e
Came to head last night - I sent him text in day saying things feel difficult and he replied saying he wants to sort things . I got v anxious during the day about his return home and was monosyllabic by time he got home . He asks did I get his reply to which I said yes and I waited for him to elaborate . I'm the one who raises things and I admit I just wanted him to do so . Nothing happened . He went to bed as normal . When things bother him he just waits until it's all broken down and I step in to try . Well I've stopped doing it apart from y day .eg lack of sex - bothers him - well he said he Wd like more / but that's it .
He wil blame me for not encouraging him to talk last night . That is a thing he often says - I do admit I was grumpy due to anxiety at my prediction that he wdnt do anything and I kno I didn't help
I'm not sure o can manage this anymore - snd I know that I have my own faults
We have 100 k equity
He earns 45 k
We have dc about to go to uni and we had planned to pay his accom 6 k / 500 pm
I can't return to my career and my earning power will be low
Please can anyone tell me if I chose to split up how I can do so and financially survive
Eg rent Wd be £400 for a start .i wdnt get a mortgage - if we split the equity I'd get 50 k and the cheapest house here costs 120 k ....
Please can anyone advise 😞
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To fear leaving Dh as I don't know if I would survive financially
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ginorwine · 26/07/2016 09:30
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