It is my birthday today. I hate my birthday at the best of times. Something ALWAYS happens to make it shit. Usually growing up my dad being a drunk arse or just an arse. As a result I always make sure other people's birthdays are lovely - presents they will like, food, meal out etc.
So we have dps kids this weekend and for the record every year on my birthday - not an issue I am not petty enough to demand it is altered unlike their DM however they have been Vile this weekend. I am guessing end of term tiredness mostly but as per bloody usual Dp does sod all about it. Dd has also been vile. Again over tired from the heat I think.
He promised he would get up with dd on Saturday - low and behold he didn't, I spent half hour trying to wake his lazy arse and get him up as she woke up at 5 to no avail. The others got up at 10 (they are 13 & 11) and completely ignored me, not a single word uttered when said good morning to or asked what they wanted for breakfast. Dp also ignored me so he got told.
Yesterday mildly better but still them all pleasuring themselves without a thought to anyone else.
This morning not a word uttered. No happy birthday from any of them.
Dp text me at about 1 and thinks I am being a complete cow for being pissed off at him.
Dsd picked up from school at 330, not a word asked her how her day was etc and am blanked. Not the slightest utterance of happy birthday
Dp has come up because I have shut myself in our room - I don't trust myself to be civil to him. And is again having a go because I have told him to leave me alone.
I am not cross at the kids particularly but i am livid that Dp has yet again ignored their behaviour and yet feels the need to tell me I am a cow because I don't want to be around him.
I am thoroughly fed up of being his absolute last thought. Aibu for this?
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wheresthel1ght · 25/07/2016 16:09
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