Background: I've been renting in a three bed house for the past year with two housemates. Initially sharing with A, and then A's friend B moved in when the third room became vacant. Before long, it felt like A and B's house as they mainly chatted to themselves, had their mutual friends over all of the time etc. Not a great atmosphere for me, the third wheel.
Fortunately, A and B have now moved out and I've been advertising for new housemates. I've had a lot of responses from friends who are house-hunting together and want to take both rooms, which I'm really not interested in as I'm trying to avoid any potential 2 against 1 situations. However, I've had several responses from people of the same nationality. I've met a few of them and they've been lovely, seem like they'd be good to live with (as much as you can tell from a short meeting anyway). I'm just a bit worried that they would be speaking their own language a lot and bitching about me keeping to themselves, and I'd end up feeling like a third wheel again. I'm now wondering if I should only choose one of them to get a better mix in the house.
I'm aware this might sound ridiculous, but am keen to avoid a tense atmosphere similar to the one when A and B were living here. Would love to hear any sharing experiences from others. Am I being unreasonable/paranoid/racist??
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rachelgreep · 23/07/2016 21:28
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