Very emotional and not sure if I'm overreacting and would appreciate perspectives.
My Dad is in hospital, has been for 4 weeks. Complex set of medical issues but predominantly admitted due to congestive heart failure and susceptibility to cellulitis, he needed IV antibiotics and diuretics. Since his admission they have discovered problems with his kidneys, liver, spleen and lymph nodes. Yesterday he had to go to a different hospital within the Trust for an MRI scan if his liver - my sister and I believe they suspect liver cancer hence the need for clearer imaging than the ultrasound could provide.
For context, Dad is a BIG chap - 6'5" and very solid. His feet and legs are very sore and infected at the moment and he is limited as to how long he can safely sit before having to elevate his legs. He has been given a special air mattress for his hospital bed and an air cushion for his chair in his room to alleviate pressure.
So his scan yesterday was at 2. We were expecting him to be transported at about 1. We expected him back by tea time at the latest. My sister got to his room at 4.30 and he was still gone. She stayed till 5.30 and had to go, left him a note to call her.
By 6.30 he still wasn't back and we were getting a bit worried, my DP and sister were both in the phone trying to find him as nobody seemed to know where he was. We knew he had a nurse chaperone but everyone was clueless.
He got back at 7.30pm. I visited today and found out they actually took him over at 11am to 'better fit with the ambulance service'. From 11am to 7.30pm he had no food (He's a diabetic snd on insulin). He had a few £ in change in his pocket which he used to get a coffee and a bottle of water for his nurse. He had none of his scheduled doses of IV antibiotics. His blood sugars weren't checked. He was left sitting on hard plastic chairs in the busy concourse for a total of almost 8 hours with his feet and legs unsupported. He is in absolute agony today, his feet are bleeding through his bandages so have obviously taken a bashing.
I am FUCKING RAGING. Not at his ward staff but whoever organised this clusterfuck and failed to take care of him. The nurse with him was lovely and kind but brand new to the Trust and unfamiliar with what to do, though she tried her best (we got her a box of chocs to say thanks as he was so grateful for her). With everything we have going on with him though I don't know if I'm being ruled by emotion and overprotectiveness - would you complain?
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Welshmaenad · 23/07/2016 13:26
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