OH and I are expecting our first baby together in October (we have been together 2 years and I have a 3 year old from a previous relationship) he is 28, and I have had a lot of experience with immature men who want to act like boys.. So when we first got together I made sure he was someone who wanted to settle down and live the family life (which he was) he is also the one that asked and asked for us to have a baby.. Now that I'm over half way through pregnancy I feel like he is almost regressing to acting like a teenager.. He usually works 7 days a week but his contract has finished so he has a few months off work- he has been out every day seing friends and only spends time with me and my son on an evening, we haven't done anything as a family in ages because he always has plans with friends. Now he's on about him and a few of his friends going on a 'lads holiday' to magaluf or ibiza or somewhere before the baby's born.. All the friends he wants to go with are single and when I think of those type of holidays I think of young lads, too much booze, and slutty girls. the thing that gets me the most is he hasn't even been on a holiday with me yet.. He's acting as if he needs to 'blow off steam' before the baby is born but this is less than 3 months away! He had plenty time for those type of holidays when he was younger and single. Here's me getting everything ready for the baby, not being able to do some activities I like, while he wants to swan off on holiday without me!
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