Hi all,
First post so please be gentle!
I'm getting married next year and (fortunately) my parents have offered to pay the majority of the wedding costs. However, I am also saving and want to pay off as much as I can afford to- making sure I've paid for all the deposits so far and have an increasing amount saved up.
My MIL to be doesn't have much money so will be paying for the suits and that's it. This is absolutely fine- she can't afford much and we don't expect her to give anything. However, she keeps making digs at my fiancé asking why we have paid the deposits and asking why isn't my mother paying for them if she's offered to pay for the wedding.
AIBU to think that she has no right to ask this? I am incredibly grateful to my parents in helping us to pay but there's no way I'd let them pay for everything themselves, knowing I have money saved up.
She has mentioned this several times and it's really starting to annoy me!
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AIBU?
To think MIL has no right to get involved with this? (Wedding related)
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Moogerbooger · 14/07/2016 21:07
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