Long story so bear with me
A couple of years ago I had a party, drank way too much, the usual story. I ended up very drunk, collapsed on the floor, being sick and my partner had to carry me to bed with the help of my friend's partner, lets call him Bob.
Anyway my partner left me, with Bob watching me, while they got a sick bowl and glass of water. Returned to find that Bob had removed my bra and was groping me and sucking my breasts, I was asleep.
An argument occurred, Bob apologised and left and it was never mentioned again. I was told the story in the morning and had no knowledge of what had happened.
Fast forward a few years and I've struggled with anxiety since, have been avoiding this friend, attempted suicide, can't stop blaming myself and questioning if I led him on etc.
I decided to tell my friend what happened, as they had been asking why I don't come out anymore etc.
Now my friend has blocked me on facebook, is completely blanking me and I have to watch her happy and laughing (they live close) with the man who assaulted me. I feel like once again I'm the one being punished and suffering for what he did.
AIBU to think she should have believed me? She knew there had been an argument that night, she knew the relationship had been strained since, she had to suspect something.
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To think my friend should have believed me?
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FriendDilema · 14/07/2016 21:05
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