I'm currently 6wks with DC3. I also have a number of quite serious medical issues not usually suffered by women young enough to be pregnant. This pregnancy was a surprise, but not entirely unexpected - and I made that choice after informed consideration, discussion, soul-searching, and prayer. When I was pregnant with DC2, I found that some people came to me to say that they had moral or ethical problems with it, and that I was irresponsible, thoughtless etc... I had a couple of very heated debates about it, and all of them left me very, very upset: it just never proved constructive or reassuring for them or I.
This time around, I think I want to have a firmer and perhaps rather selfishly more harsh policy of "that's not something I am prepared to discuss with you". Given that I do realise that many people are genuinely worried or concerned about me, AIBU?
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AIBU not to discuss the safety, advisability, recklessness etc of my pregnancy with others?
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