So dh and I both have health issues. His issues are probably more long term and require frequent blood test's. I have had multiple symptoms but my issues are less permanent.
I a a Sah and dh is employed in a high level job.
So about 2 years ago I had a colonoscopy under sedation which thankfully was clear. Dh couldn't spare the time to take a day off so he wfh and took me in and collected me. In theory I wasn't supposed to be in charge of small children for 24 hours but upon collecting me from hospitals he decided he needed a blood test. He suggested me and 2 and 8 year old wait in car whilst he did this. I refused as I didn't want 8 year old having responsibility if I was poorly. Do we all went to blood test section but J was the one running after toddler even before dh went in. The rest of the day I spent looking after DC whilst he worked. Fortunately I was fine. A few months later he took day off for him to go on a day out do he could have taken day off for me.
So tomorrow I am having minor op under GA as a day case. He is dropping me off and collecting and I have arranged for a family member to be there tomorrow to look after DC and me if discharged early.
On Tuesday dh has taken day off as I need an adult with me for 24 hours and my family member can't stay but yet again he is sneaking off to get s blood test done.
Ainu to be fed up that my needs seen to always be trumped by his.
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Highlandfling80 · 10/07/2016 23:59
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