Yes weddings are all about love and the couple and that's all that matters, but honestly I would adore strolling down the isle in the big dress, the party and the fuss.
I've been married before, we eloped and had only my Dsis and DD present. Been divorced for years now.
My problem is the two sides of my family DM and siblings plus family/DF and DSM plus family hate each other. Like, punch each other in the face wouldn't come to my wedding if the other one did hate each other.
AIBU to think they could just suck it up for one day. I dream of DF walking me down the isle and apart from one Dsis no-one else from DM's side would turn up It's also the only opportunity DF will ever get to do this in his lifetime.
We wanted a big bash for DS's christening and ended up it being just us, because both sides made it so difficult that I couldn't invite any. Then they got annoyed because they weren't going. Each thought they deserved to go more than the other. A wedding feels a little more monumental though.
So basically to get what I want I have to chose a side. Or invite none and just have DP's family.
Or AIBU and I should fuck off and elope again? which I dont want deep down if I'm being honest even if it's materialistic
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YourNewspaperIsShit · 10/07/2016 23:25
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