Me and my partner went on our honeymoon back in March. While there, I lost some cash and my dad sent me a hundred quid over for the last day. He picked us up from the airport and I asked for his bank details to pay him back when I got back into my house and he said it was OK. So I took the matter as done with.
Nothing about this has been mentioned to me up until today.
We booked a last minute deal to Lanzarote this afternoon and DH updated his facebook to say so. Within a few minutes I got a ranty message off my sister saying I was taking the piss out of my dad and I should have at least offered him 50 quid of what I owe him instead of just booking holidays. I spoke to my dad immediately after getting this message and he said he didn't remember but he thinks he meant it was OK, I didn't have to pay him THAT SECOND (in the car...). It seems there have been miscommunications somewhere but I transferred the money right away and he seems happy.
My issue, is that this has never actually been mentioned to me despite it clearly being a topic of conversation between my family (I suspect my mum rather than my dad, as my dad isn't a gossipy person at all) and for that message to be sent within 5 mins of her finding out I was going away...kinda says to me that its been made out to be some massive deal that I didn't pay my dad money I didn't know I owed him...if this had been mentioned prior I would have paid him back months and months ago but with noone ever saying anything its now gone on for like 4 months with me being none the wiser and people bitching behind my back about it.
I don't blame my dad, and he doesn't seem to blame me as its all sorted and its been agreed it was just a matter of miscommunication/misunderstanding. But am I wrong to be pissed off about the situation? If I had an issue about something, I would tell the person, not talk behind their backs for ages about it..maybe I am overreacting or something but I am mad as hell right now.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To be really annoyed by this..
16 replies
Vickyyyy · 08/07/2016 17:15
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.