To set the scene: Group of 6 friends, all have kids of similar ages. Meet up fairly regularly with kids and without.
Everyone was asked if they were free one day to do a specific activity with kids. One of the group says they can't do it due to prior engagement. The rest of us talk generally about doing something together but make no firm plans.
Late on the evening before the day we'd arranged to get together, we change our minds and decide to do something different to the original activity. In the morning the 6th person finds out about the new plans and decides they do want to be part of things and would have preferred this to their prior engagement. This person then turns up (without kids) and proceeds to go on and on mentioning at least four/five times on the day, and subsequently in texts, about not being part of the (completely last minute) arrangements/ how sad they are that their kids missed out.
AIBU to tell her to wind her neck in and stop complaining about not being involved when she specifically said they were busy???
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wanderingcloud · 04/07/2016 23:54
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