Okay, backstory - weight has always been a HUGE issue with my mother, who is perfectly healthy and average sized. I am naturally thinnish, and resolved at an early age that I wouldn't be obsessed with looks/weight/clothes as she is.(She told me to start shaving my legs at 15 or so). I don't diet or have any emotional problems with food so I'm aware I may lack insight/empathy here, but oh my God, why must she give me a weekly report on whether she has lost/gained two pounds, what she has eaten/not eaten, whether she feels fat or slim...honestly, she's an intelligent professional woman, and it rather upsets me that in her late sixties this is still such an overwhelming issue in her life .But also...I don't want to hear it. It makes me uncomfortable, and its boring. Should I just let her get it out? She seems to get some kind of benefit from telling me? Or is there a way to politely tell her that I don't want to hear it anymore?
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iloveeverykindofcat · 03/07/2016 10:55
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