Not a thread about a thread but another thread has got me thinking plus other comments MNetters have made.
I'm 33 and have been with my DP for almost 2 years. We are very happy and are getting engaged and trying to conceive.
I've always been quite successful in my career and have now gone freelance which means I earn a six figure salary.
DP's 'career' has never really taken off. He's a strength coach (personal trainer). When I met him he had his own gym but after two years it wasn't making enough money to pay him more than £300-600 per month. Now he's starting again as a PT in another small scale gym but marketing isn't his strong point and he doesn't have any clients yet (though he does do some marketing its just not been effective).
Since we moved in together a year ago I have paid for everything. At first because the gym wasn't making a profit but I said I'd give him a year to try and make it work since we had enough money. It's been about five weeks now since it folded and he's still not earning money.
In every other way he's my perfect partner: we have fun, I trust him completely, he is kind, loyal, patient. He does his fair share around the house and probably more than me sometimes. He often has a cup of tea ready for me and the dinner cooking when I get in.
It's sort of a role reversal....if we have DC then he will be the primary carer as I work in London.
My friends say they love him but they couldn't live with someone who relied on them financially...
Interested in thoughts...AIBU to marry what MN call a 'cocklodger'?
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stumblymonkey · 30/06/2016 18:28
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