Husband and I split 3 months ago. He is staying with a family member. He has a key to our house because he sees DS every evening here and has him here for one day and one night every weekend.
He has massive anxiety problems. He doesn't trust me to look after DS. DS has autism and I am his carer. I've done all of the day to day parenting plus all of the meetings, paperwork and therapies that come with additional needs.
This morning for example he has messaged me three times before 5:45am to make sure DS is ok and has woken us both up. He's tried to call social services at 4am before because I was asleep and not texting back.
He has then let himself into the house at 6:20am. When I told him he couldn't just let himself in out of the blue like that, he kicked off, shouting and swearing that I have started using DS as a weapon against him and am dictating when he can see his own son. For the record, I have never stopped him from seeing him.
I just don't know how to handle his anxiety. Would changing my locks make things worse?
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oaadc · 29/06/2016 06:56
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