Long story but do you think my mother not telling me this means I grew up not feeling good enough?
She told me today that people used to think she was a model, but growing up, she was always criticising me for being overweight. I never remember her telling me I was beautiful, or even pretty, even on my wedding day. She was also pretty controlling having lived on her nerves most of my life. My sister was more like her and got told she looked lovely, but not me. I suffer with low self esteem and confidence and I wonder how much of an effect this had on me. It hit me like a bolt of lightening today and I feel so sad.
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AIBU?
AIBU to think that my life would have been so much different if my mother told me I was beautiful?
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wibblypig1 · 25/06/2016 14:36
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