well have just written a 6 page essay on this and decided to condense..
DM very generous, gives DS (21 at uni) and DD (18 at college) monthly allowance. things tight here as DH has chronic illness. DS moving so needs deposit..we pay1/3, he pays 1/3 DM offered to pay 1/3..well that was the agreement. spoke to DS yesterday to make sure money had transferred. when i reminded him to phone nanny to thank her too, he said "already done it. because she phoned rental agent and paid the lot!".. just feel a bit gutted because we had agreed that we would all pay the same. she does this at xmas too..i tell her what i bought kids/how much card money they getting...she always has to "top" what we've done. i love her dearly but just once I'd like my kids to think that we were all on level pegging. this probably doesnt even make sense, but for some reason this time it has really upset me. AIBU? should i just be happy that DS doesn't have to pay out himself? Jeez..i couldnt even buy her lunch for mothers day..when i went to the loo she went to cash desk and paid bill :-(
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Morporkia · 22/06/2016 10:54
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