I had my second DC six months ago. Me and DH have been feeling a bit isolated this year as we moved house to a new area. One of my friends - with whom I've always had a friendship that blows hot and cold - hasn't bothered her ass coming to see me or the new baby. She lives about 10 minutes' drive away from our new house. I have been pissed off with her for a while, to be honest - she'll cancel on me at the last minute or only want to do things on her terms. I suppose I've given her the benefit of the doubt repeatedly in the past, but now it's staring me in the face that she's probably as fair-weather as they come. We're part of a bigger friendship group (also strained/splintered since DH and I moved) and when I do see her, I enjoy her company, but frankly, she doesn't partake in the reciprocal kindnesses you'd expect of a normal friendship. After five months of virtual silence (apart from a cursory baby congratulations text), she's just texted me to say she's keen to meet up and see the new baby, six months later. Should I tell her to get lost and why I feel that why? Or should I try to patch things up? We've been here before, but this time, I'm offended that she's made no effort to meet my new DC, let alone barely see or support me during my pregnancy. I hate to draw a line under friendship, but feel like she's giving me no choice.
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