to leave the doors locked and the keys turned so do has to sleep in the car (lighthearted)

[wheresthel1ght]

He has been away for the weekend, phoned me for all of 2 mins the whole time, not once asked how I am or how dd is just ranted about him and what he was doing - boys weekend at a local festival type event.

Not arsed that it's Father's Day but I am pisses off that he promised he would be home for us to have dinner as a family before dd (2.10) went to bed. He phones at 5.30 to say still there, not take tent down and the bloke he is lift sharing with is awol. Dd is now in bed, I haven't eaten and it is too late to do the roast dinner so am contemplating ordering a Chinese on his PayPal and then making the inconsiderate arse sleep in the car.

He works nights so dd hasn't seen him for more than 20 mins since Tuesday evening.

I am exhausted as she has been a nightmare all weekend which I admit is clouding my judgement

[BobsYourAuntiesLiveInLover]

The Chinese sounds like a bloody good idea. Hope you can have a wine or gin to go with it!

[wheresthel1ght]

Bugger bobs I think we only have a bottle of red in that he was given for his birthday and I can't drink it...anyone know if justeat covers the off licence

[wheresthel1ght]

For the record I can't drink it cos I am allergic to red wine not because it is his

[sugarapplelane]

Does your other half have to contact you in his weekend away?

Does it really matter?

Let him have a weekend of fun and then maybe next time you can go away for the weekend safe in the knowledge that you can do what you want, not have to worry about calling home and come home at what ever time you feel like.

I think you're being unreasonable.

Blimey- if you can't even look after your child on your own all weekend without getting stressed I don't know what the world is coming too...

Go and chill out and not worry about what your other half is doing. Let him have some fun for goodness sake and don't be so controlling

[wheresthel1ght]

Sugarapple - apparently the meaning of lighthearted is lost on you.

[WindTheFrog]

If you have Amazon prime now they deliver alcohol...

[wheresthel1ght]

Wind I don't but I might sign the twat up just to try it!!

He has just dropped his lift share off in a town half an hour away. He can absolutely bollocks if he thinks I am cooking for him now.

[WindTheFrog]

Either that or tell him you are not letting him in without your drink of choice!

Order your takeout quick so he'll arrive just as you are finishing it. If you are feeling generous you can give him your left overs

[ateapotandacake]

Mine does this! Drives me NUTS.

[wheresthel1ght]

apologies my phone has died and is refusing to charge...poxy apple products

he finally rolled in about 830 and then acted all offended because i didn't welcome him with open arms...i suspect low sugar levels from not eating waiting for the idiot to come home have caused me to be highly unreasonable because he whinged he was only getting one word answers so i have yelled at him for being an inconsiderate arse and being 4 hours later home than was agreed and not bothering to tell me for 2 of those hours.