Yesterday we received a letter from the land registry stating my husband's name was finally there as the owner of this house. It marks the end of a long, stressful year for us, involving his mother's death, probate, theft, a new baby and all sorts of horrible things going on with the executors. It's dragged on for a long time and we have been so desperate for it to be over. We said we'd have a little celebration once it was all done and have had champagne in the fridge waiting.
Finally got the news yesterday. So pleased! We bought curly wurlies and Ben and Jerrys ice cream to go with our champagne it was just going to be a nice little thing once the kids were in bed. We rarely spend evenings together at all because of his job I was looking forward to us being able to finally think about the future and relax.
Then he watched football and fell asleep. He'd already watched a match just before it. I was a bit annoyed when he said there was another he wanted to watch, but was hardly going to tell him he couldn't, so thought we'd have our champagne afterwards. So he watched it, then fell asleep. I tried to talk to him a it, though he might wake up but then got really annoyed at him and told him to go upstairs to bed because there was no point in him being downstairs, and he did.
I am SO annoyed that this was quite a big deal to me, and I sat there like an idiot waiting for him to decide to spend some time with me. It made me feel like shit. He managed to make time for two football matches though.
He's now annoyed at me, apparently over the way I spoke to him last night. Claims he wouldn't be bothered if it was the other way around and I always fall asleep I front of the tv. I do, but that is irrelevant. I fall asleep when we're just watching crap together on the telly, not when I've prioritised watching things above spending time with him and he's waiting around for me to actually talk to him!
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Splandy · 18/06/2016 08:42
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