To be upset at DH?

(4 Posts)
user1466208641 Sat 18-Jun-16 01:29:54

My DH and I went to the local with friends. I left at 9 to pick up DS from her school disco. DH stayed to have more time out. I was fine with it. As I left I told him to call me when he wanted to be picked up so I waited up until 2am. He finally fell through the front door at 4 am. He hadn't messaged me at all to say he wouldn't need a ride...which was still kind of ok except I had to work this morning and could have used some proper sleep. This morning I checked our bank account and he has spent all the money I was setting aside for our anniversary tomorrow. I was so upset I was in tears all the way to work. I really was hoping for a night together alone and without the children and now I'm just going to be cooking and cleaning again. I feel like he has been so selfish.

Beefles Sat 18-Jun-16 01:41:48

He has been beyond unreasonable and you need to talk to him about this. tell him how much he has hurt you. How dare he ruin your anniversary together!
flowers for you and next time you save any money up, take yourself out and leave him at home. You're owed a decent night out now.

RJnomore1 Sat 18-Jun-16 01:45:27

Why are you cooking and cleaning?

SomeDaysIDontGiveAMonkeys Sat 18-Jun-16 02:17:43

Sounds like he needs to behave like a grown man and not a self indulgent boy. As for cooking and cleaning; why would you? Whilst you allow him to behave like an idiot, he'll never change.

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