So history. We have 3 Dd. 1St planned. 3rd a happy surprise.
When Dd was little dh did nothing during the week to help. I think in her 1St year he changed maybe 5 nappies. Obviously I did all night wakings and did lots of cluster feeding in the evenings. Weekends he would do a bit of DIY and gardening (not regular tasks) and occasionally cooked but he was too tired to do more. Was out of house 12 hours per day during the week.
At about 4 months I asked for help and was told I clearly wanted Dd3 more so I had to suck it up. He was too tired to do more. If he did more he would crash the car.
If I am honest something inside me died that day and I have been considering leaving ever since.
Anyway he also has arthritis and has recently moved jobs and now is gone much earlier. Every morning he goes to work and than returns home at 6 and basically takes to his bed to watch TV as his legs are better that way .
Leaving me to look after DC. Cook dinner. Clean up kitchen do numerous club runs etc etc.
The only time he seems to have any energy is if he is after sex. Clearly most nights I an to tired and fed up to want it. Dd3 is not a good sleeper.
So Ainu to think he may be putting it on a bit
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To think he is putting this on a bit
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Highlandfling80 · 17/06/2016 11:43
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