RSVP

[1wokeuplikethis]

You receive an invitation, it has an RSVP; a date to do it by & contact information.
You don't bother RSVP-ing.

AIBU to think this is very bladdy rude? I am the inviter, I have 40 invitees, I have received 4 replies.

Why don't people bother RSVP-ing? Anybody know? Rude arseholes? Very busy lives? Suddenly can't read? Hand fell off so can't text?

If I was in a worse mood I would possibly say DONT COME TO MY EVENT THEN YOU PRICKS. I WILL DRINK ALL THE WINE AND EAT ALL THE CAKE MYSELF.

Honestly though, you receive a personalised invitation to a day that is special to your friend and clearly costing money and needing organisation and you just don't bother getting in touch? Terrible form.

[TheNaze73]

YANBU. You can't rely on hardly anyone

[KoalaDownUnder]

I vote rude arseholes.

Nobody is that frigging busy.

[acasualobserver]

I've said this before - I'm not sure if some people know enough French to translate it. Try writing "PLEASE REPLY" on your next set of invitations.

[Blablabla1984]

It's rude!!!

The same thing happened to my, invited 20 people to my baby's birthday in December and only 3 RSVPd. The others said they had been carried away by the Christmas to do lists. LAME!!!!

I'd probably message them for an RSVP!!

[RaeSkywalker]

Yes, it is flipping rude. I always RSVP- it's not hard is it!!

[Pinkheart5915]

It is very rude of people not to rsvp. I can only think they've never organised a party themselves and don't know its difficult to order food etc if you don't have a rough idea how many will be there.

I always rsvp because I'm lovely

[VulcanWoman]

As PP has said they probably don't realise they're suppose to respond, thick or rude, either way they don't deserve to come to your party.

[1wokeuplikethis]

Ok well, they're all married so should remember the frustration of people not letting them know.

It's annoying really because you organise a lovely event, invite all the people you think are lovely and then 2 weeks before decide they are all twats.

[Sallyingforth]

"RSVP. If you don't reply I'll assume you are not coming"

[TheNaze73]

I'll send you back my RSVP OP

They are/ they aren't all twats

[FireTruckOhFireTruck]

YANBU - they are just rude.

[Princesspeach1980]

I hate rsvps, I've booked a small but quite expensive party for my DC, only 6 kids invited and still waiting on 3 rsvps. It's so annoying as I either have to pay for 6 or 8 children (including my 2) so I need to know numbers. It's happened at every party I've ever planned so I don't know why I'm still surprised.

[GonnaDoItAnyway]

When I sent out my invites I put in addressed, stamped and very simple cards where all they had to do was tick/cross/colour in one bloody box and pop it in a post box.

Did I get them back? Did I fuck! I had to chase everyone to the point of

if I don't hear by x you had better bring your own dinner and drinks because you'll be without.