I will precede this post by admitting that I am a bit OCD about our house after a 1.5 refurb, and my MIL and I have not always got on but we are ok now although my DH is a bit twitchy about us.
It's my DD's 7th birthday on Sunday and various packages have been arriving from Amazon for her from my MIL who lives in NZ. Today my DH told me that the main package is due today - a keyboard.
That's cool I think. Until he shows me the link. It's almost a metre wide with its own stool. Her room is in the loft with no free wall - bed, full length wardrobe, juliette balcony and chest of drawers so it would have to go somewhere else. Our house is big by London standards but not huge and we don't really have any spare place for it to go. Don't get me wrong, the new kitchen diner where we spend most of our time, is filled with toys, but they are tidied up at night and again, there is nowhere it can go neatly against a wall (I also think that these keyboards are ugly and she will get bored and it will just gather dust). The other packages are learning tools for it so she is expected to learn to play it properly. I told my DH that I'm not helping (we can barely fit homework and swimming lessons in the time we have available) and he said she can teach herself. If it was that easy piano teachers would be redundant!
It will also be the cause of endless arguments with her and my 3 year old DS yawn...
It sound overly dramatic but it is a present that will just make my life harder.
I'm pissed off that she didn't talk to us - I would have suggested a smaller, cheaper 'starter' keyboard that she could use at the dining table or office desk.
She also has 'form' for this - the trampoline that arrived unannounced for her 4th birthday when we were in our old house with its 15' garden - all 10' if it. Sat in our hall for 2 weeks waiting for Amazon to pick up. Oh, and they had been to our house so not like they were thinking NZ gardens.. And as for the crazy battery toy animals she insists on buying - we spent £11 on batteries for the bloody dog last week!
I get that she wants to give surprises but when it's something with practical implications I think it would be polite to check. My mum wouldn't dare do this 
AIBU?
AIBU to be annoyed by MIL gift
Halle71 · 16/06/2016 09:43
Oh to have this as my only problem in life...!
If I were your MIL I'd buy a baby grand piano as next year's present 
I understand where you are coming from OP!
My MIL likes to fill my house with shit too! Although we see her every week so we are able to manage it by steering her thoughts to smaller more practical things.
She once told me she was buying DH a gaming chair (like an office swivel chair but with speakers and stuff) for xmas. I told her it would look very nice in her house
I work, DH works, we spend our free time with the kids taking them to sports lessons, playing in the park, days out, playing games, play dates
Well heaven forbid you add one other small thing for your DD on top of all this that all parents do. 
It's a nice thing, not that big. Get over yourself.
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She's 6 turning 7 so quite young. I'd have it out for some fun for a couple of weeks (i'd let DS join in - DD might not mind) and see if she enjoys it/shows much interest in it - then if not store it for a few months and then see if you can sell it.
If she does enjoy it and fancy learning piano you could get her a weekly lesson?
No idea what all the Juliette balcony, big london house, x amount of £ referb, new kitchen diner stuff has got to do with it 
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