My dd (13) is due to take part in a charity event next month as part of a team with other family members, as dues to her age she is unable to do it as a solo entry & im unable to do it with her for health reasons.
Problem is iam not speaking to most of said family members, two of them are very toxic, passive aggressive, narssisistic bullys, who if you dont do things their way or agree with them on things will get very nasty and send abusive messages / block contact till you give in, i used to toe the line so to speak as i was scared of being ostracised from the family, but im now in my mid 30's and decided enough was enough & over the last couple of years have started to stand up for myself
Recently tho there has been an issue that they tried to bully me over but i refused to let them bully me, my dsis sent me a nasty and aggressive message then blocked me, and when i told my stepmum that i still intended to attend the charity event she warned me that my dsis would be there & that it was nice knowing me
Then yesterday she herself sent me a nasty message ending with "if i see you at (charity event) you better run! Aibu to now not go to the event & also not send my dd? I know she will be disappointed, but next year i will see if my sil can do it with her instead as she does alot of charity events, & i will of course still donate to the charity regardless of wether my dd is there or not, and was thinking that to make up for her not going to the event i would take her out for the afternoon instead
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SaltyPotatoes · 11/06/2016 10:02
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