Sorry posting here for traffic. I'm in a bit of a quandry about dd8. Lots of medical issues, time off etc and behind in school. I posted in education regarding keeping her back a year and got helpful replies, which prompted me to have a meeting with her teacher this week.
Was shocked to hear how behind she is, the top end of the class are 9 book bands ahead of her and she is basically in the bottom 3 in the class. That in itself doesn't worry me so much (I am so glad she is alive and semi-well ) but we are in a 11+ county and from next year the ante will be upped and the pressure somewhat increased. Teacher is really lovely, was honest regarding dd, feels that her issues are related to illness etc, was very positive about her. However, she will be assessed in September for remedial class (why has this not happened before?!) that will take her out of class 3 days per week in order to "bring her on".
My concern is that this extra pressure will be too much for her and I am wondering if it is better to withdraw her from school and home educate her (I have experience with this so no qualms about HE per se) OR should I leave her there and hope that she improves. I don't want additional pressures to be honest on her (or myself) as she has so much going on already health wise.
Can anyone share their experience with a low-set child and how things have worked out for them?
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dolkapots · 10/06/2016 11:39
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