Ok so there is a man at work who behaves disgustingly towards the women in the office. He is perfectly fine with the men.
Today he made sexual remarks about the school age daughter of a co worker. Her daughter was in her school uniform in her school photo. He was making comments about how fit the daughter is and how lots of men would like to fuck her. Yes he used the word fuck.
Myself and several other women told him he was talking about a child and to stop.he just smirked and walked away.
I told my colleagues that I had had enough and was going to report him. One of the other men said not to as he has MH issues. I asked whether he actually does or was he just guessing. He said that only someone who has MH issues would say things like that. I respondedthat no he was a twat, you don't need MH issues to be a twat. Although inappropriate behaviour can be a sign of MH issues, one doesn't automatically mean the other. I was told I was being rude and was just as bad as he was.
I told him to get a grip. That you can be a twat without having MH issues. He then said if I complained about the other man making comments he, my colleague would complain about me. This made the mother of the daughter to say just leave it. That it wasn't worth it.
Am I wrong? Was I being unreasonable? Thanks
AIBU?
Being a twat doesn't automatically mean they have MH issues
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