Hi
So quick back track, our DS is just five weeks old and at four days old his paternal grandmother chose to start stirring the pot and creating drama with my parents, my partner and i chose to not get involved as we had enough on our plate and it was all very childish. however it continued to escalate and get very nasty until at 9days old i had no choice but to put my foot down and demand it stop as it was not fair. my partners sister then decided to pick up where his mother left off causing more trouble. I eventually said i wanted nothing to do with them and that they wouldn't be left responsible for the baby, i didnt want them coming to the house as i have DD to a previous relationship and they had made nasty comments about her too. Both his mum and his sister insisted that they were coming to the house and turned up over two consecutive days, i told my partner i was leaving and taking the kids to my mums as it was unfair that we couldnt even sit in our home without them causing trouble. He then rang his sister and they both blocked the door and refused to let me leave, i rang my mum to come to the house so his sister rang the police saying it was a domestic and i was kidnapping my own son. since this my partner and i have separated and i have left the house, we are resolving things between us but he keeps asking if his mum can have the baby, ive repeatedly said he can take the baby to see her and stay with him, but i dont want him leaving in her care. She has now said she will seek legal advice to have my son on his own and my partner is in agreement with her ... can somebody tell me if they can do that as i have not stopped contact just do not my child leaving with her until apologies are made and she rebuilds the trust she has broken
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Grandparents, Interfering, Relationship breakdown
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AdrianneL24 · 27/05/2016 16:11
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