Okay so DSS goes to a nursery and as DP is at work I tend to make lunches and get him ready to go. On pick up the other day one of the staff approached us and said "Can I have a favour?"
She said that DSS took a couple of quavers from another child today and could he have some more food in his lunchbox as he is obviously still hungry.
I had packed sandwiches, some cheese, tomatoes and a yogurt which is felt was perfectly adequate for a little tummy.
When I asked if he had eaten everything in his lunch she said he had eaten everything apart from the bread! (The most filling bit, so obviously he would still be hungry.)
This annoyed me slightly as clearly he doesn't need more food, surely they should be watching him more! She said he had a few of the crisps and therefore he must have been getting them for a little while before they noticed.
DSS is in the toddler room (going to preschool in a couple of weeks) with other little toddlers and is in a bit of a "everything is mine" stage which we are working on with him. At home he eats his own meals and has almost stopped trying to eat ours, which he used to do often.
I feel a bit annoyed that their solution was for me to "pack more food" as I feel the issue isn't the amount of food but their supervision and encouragement to try the different foods I put into his lunch. I don't want to pack too much food as I want to be able to send him with a balanced meal rather than an unhealthy one.
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AIBU to think this was a bit off?
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Imavinoops · 26/05/2016 09:41
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