I'm getting married and the conversation of last names has taken over all the happiness.
I probably sound awful but I'm struggling to want to take on my partners name.
I love him very much but here are my issues
- His last name and my middle name r almost identical... To lose my middle name would feel like losing a huge family connection. And to have both its just mad!
2 my eldest shares my last name (previous relationship.)
3 youngest has doubled barrelled name- thought we could all adopt this name as compromise.
I understand it's tradition to take his name but we are so not traditional... Please kindly give me your views And what you all think is a good way to move forward?
Also he said if I don't take his name he sees no point in the marriage