DS, 21m, has had times recently where has hasn't gone down at his usual bedtime of 7pm and instead, has gone down at day 730. Thats fine. But lately, it's getting harder and harder. Over the weekend gone, he was up til 9 on 2 of the nights. Last night he didn't go down until 1040. It appears to all be because of teething but I don't know what's for the best. If we leave him in bed, he cries and cries - nut just winghing but full on sobs with tears. If we get him up he settles and starts playing with his toys. I don't want to make a rod for my own back where he learns if he cries, he gets to get up and play but it's soul destroying to leave him sobbing his heart out.
I am so stuck as to what to do. My brain says he must learn that bedtime is bedtime and not play. My heart says I don't want him to get upset. My head says he's only getting upset because he's not getting his own way. My heart says stop being such a mean mum.... and it goes on!
I really don't know whats for the best. If anyone can help, I'd be really grateful x
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cjt110 · 19/05/2016 12:45
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