I recently began a relationship with a man overseas (within Europe). Things were seemingly fine at first, and aside from a few small issues that needed clearing up my first visit went swimmingly,
In the time between my first and second visit a lot of discrepancies in stories I had been told and information available popped up and it has been difficult to get to the bottom of situations. After some online snooping to try and find the truth I thought I had the full story. fast forward to my second visit and he wasn't as emotionally available as he'd previously been, he seemed withdrawn and was hiding his phone away.
Since I've come back to the UK more lies and arguments have been happening and every time I have been promised honesty from now on there has been yet another problem.
Breaking point came today when he messaged me telling me he thinks we should break up, and when I agreed and gave no fight he turned the tables on me and told me I needed to forgive him while he changed for the better and once again promised me complete honesty.
Sorry for the super long post but I'm at a loss for what to do. I want to believe there may be hope, as there is love on my side, but I'd like some opinions of others to gauge whether I'm wearing rose tinted glasses or whether my concern that there will be no change is well placed.
Sorry for the essay.
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seeingflags · 18/05/2016 23:57
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